This is a common barrier for offering support to a student who is asking about what support or alternative options might be available, and there are many ways to prevent this type of "snowball" effect:
- At the beginning of the semester, encourage students to come to you in office hours or individually in class with concerns they are having, whether it be personal or academic. That way you can allow for reasonable support based on the concerns they share in a way that keeps your conversation private.
- One common concern under this umbrella is providing an assignment extension to one student and being wary that more students will now ask for an extension. One way to combat this is to start off each semester allowing all students one or two "no questions asked" extensions, where they can get a pre-set extension period for qualified assignments with no questions asked, as long as they notify you before the class period in which it is due. This way, students know they have the option available when they need it, but know that it is a limited resource and would not "abuse" it. Some students may ask for more extensions besides these, but those could be dealt with on a case-by-case basis.
- Additionally, if you find that a majority of students are requesting an extension on the same assignment, this could signify a struggle to keep up with course material and/or a specifically busy period in the semester; a next possible step could be to consider making adjustments in the syllabus.
If this is a topic you struggle with, we encourage you first to turn to your colleagues and ask how they handle this type of situation.